Daniel Darling, author, pastor, speaker / Posts tagged "saying you’re sorry"

5 Reasons Why Pastors Should Apologize

For some reason, the hardest two words for a leader to say are often, "I'm sorry." This is especially difficult for young leaders. Especially young pastors. But here's the thing, an apology may be your best leadership tool. This I know, because as a young, green, inexperienced pastor, I've had to do my share of apologizing. So here are five reasons why pastors should have a quick trigger with their "I'm sorry." 1) It gives builds respect A young pastor often thinks he has to assert his authority, to let everyone know at this church that he's the boss and it's "his way or the highway." This, he thinks, gives him more respect and authority. Aside from being unbiblical (Matthew 20:25-26)(Titus 3:2; 1 Timothy 3:3), what a young pastor doesn't realize is that admitting when he is wrong or hasn't fully weighed a matter actually builds respect. People begin to think, "Okay, he's...

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