Daniel Darling, author, pastor, speaker / Posts tagged "adults"

5 Ways Adult Children Can Honor Their Parents

How should an adult grown (presumably married, but not necessarily) child relate to his or her parents? There is a tension in Scripture between obeying the Scripture which says to "leave and cleave" in forming your own adult identity and family (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5) and obeying the Scripture which says to "honor your father and mother" (Exodus 20:12; Ephesians 6:2). Every family has it's own rhythm. Every family has its own share of circumstances, from abusive to permissive to annoying, etc. So how one adult child handles his or her parents isn't necessarily a blueprint for another. Still, the Scriptures seem to indicate an intentional approach to the way we love our parents as adults. This is a journey I've travelled in the last few years. I seem to have endured the typical cycle: being cared for and nurtured by my parents as a child, distancing and forming my own identity...

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