How NOT to Read the News

We live in a time where we are exposed to more news headlines than at any time in human history. In the ancient days of news, anchors checked the AP newswire for stories and reported on them and people in their homes watched or people in their cars listened to radio. Today, everyone, is essentially checking the wire, all day, through social media. We also live in a time when it's has never been easier to publicly express an opinion. Before the Internet, if something happened, you might have picked up the phone to call someone or perhaps you might discuss it at work, around the water cooler. But today we are all pundits, all with commentary on what is happening right now....

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They hear you when you’re speaking

Right before I got married, a wise man, married for many years, gave me a piece of advice. He said, "Dan, always talk favorably about your wife when she is not around. She can hear what you say about her even when she is not around." This is a maxim I have tried to follow in my marriage. We've all been around folks who dis their spouses with regularity. It's cringe-inducing for those of us who have to hear it and it only makes us wonder how good that marriage can be. I also believe, strongly, that spouses can sense when we don't have their back, when we're kind of smiling when we are in their presence, but cutting them down when they are gone. Real love doesn't do this. I also think this is an important principle when it comes to our children. It's  easy to criticize our kids when they are...

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